Discover the 7 psychology-backed steps that will help you move from just coping to genuinely growing with your grief, written by a psychologist who has lived every word as a widow.

Finally understand why joy isn't a betrayal, and how to rebuild your identity, reclaim your confidence, and start creating a life that feels meaningfully, excitingly yours again.

Get the honest truth no one tells widows; that happiness and grief can co-exist, and that the strongest, most fulfilling chapter of your life isn't behind you. It's still being written.

"You're doing brilliantly. And you're exhausted by it."

You get up. You hold it together. You answer the messages, handle the admin (or should I say 'Sadmin'), show up for everyone else... ...and underneath all of that — quietly, persistently — you wonder: Is this it? Is this just... what my life is now? You are not broken. You are not failing. You are coping...and coping has kept you safe up to now. But coping isn't the same as living. And somewhere in you, you already know that.

I'm Tabby Kerwin... why should you listen to me?

I'm not just a psychologist who studies grief. I was widowed at 41-years-old and I continually grow with my grief. My husband Simon was amazing and everything to me and my son and he and I ran our business together. When he died after a short illness, I had a lot to learn about being a solo midlife woman, a solo mum and a solo CEO and business owner. I hold a Master's in Coaching Psychology and am currently midway through a PhD. I am a published author, TEDx speaker, and the founder & CEO of The PERFORM Experience Ltd which I run with my son with a mission to help 7 million people protect their mental health, grow with their grief and PERFORM at their best, even in the hardest seasons of their lives. My TEDx talk "Widowhood Made Me Happier" has reached thousands of people around the world. Because it tells the truth that not enough people are saying: "You don't have to choose between honouring your grief and choosing happiness. You can do both. At the same time. Fact...and I can show you how."

You will discover why coping is keeping you stuck, and what to do instead

You will learn how to feel joy without guilt (yes, really — and the science behind why it's possible)

You will discover the identity shift that changes everything for widows in midlife

What people are saying

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Amazing talk! Thank you for making me feel all the feels.
Megan

Middlesbrough

Loved everything about your talk; the drama, the prop, the humour, but also the practical lessons on dealing with grief #blownaway
Kemi

Spoken Word Artist

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Tabby reminded us all of the importance of vauing life, finding strength, and making the most of every moment through loss.
Michael

Strategic Business Manager

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Tabby turns something incredibly difficult such as widowhod, into a beautiful, purposeful journey.
Katriina

England

A note about your download...

This guide is private. Just you, your thoughts, and these pages. No group. No pressure. No performing wellness for anyone else. Just an honest, warm, psychology-backed conversation, at whatever pace feels right for you. Because I know that as a widow, some spaces feel too big, too public, too much. This one doesn't have to be. This is your space. Take it.

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